In Love or Insane?

Last Updated on August 28, 2020 by Paula

love or obsession

So you’re  head over heels in love, or at least you think you are.

You have all the symptoms! You can’t eat, you can’t sleep and you can’t seem to talk about anything but him.

But sometimes that wonderful feeling can turn borderline weird, and if not kept in check, can quickly turn into full-blown

Can’t tell the difference between the two just yet?

Read up on these telltale signs to protect you from becoming that unlovable psycho-stalker guys steer clear of.

It’s LOVE if: You get excited when you hear your phone ring, then slightly disappointed when you find out it’s not him calling.
It’s OBSESSION if: You have a separate line and number especially for him.

It’s LOVE if: You have him on speed dial.
It’s OBSESSION if:  You call him in the middle of the night, then hang up when he answers. You just want to hear his voice.

It’s LOVE if: You know what his favorite kind of candy is.
It’s OBSESSION if: You pick up his discarded wrapper and keep it in your wallet so you can have a piece of him wherever you go.

It’s LOVE if: You have a song just for him.
It’s OBSESSION if:  You only have that one song on your iPOD.  And it’s on loop.

It’s LOVE if: You already know all of his little quirks.
It’s OBSESSION if: You try to imitate all those little quirks and make them yours, too.

It’s LOVE if: You invite him over for dinner with your family.
It’s OBSESSION if: He must come over every day, no excuses.

It’s LOVE if: You have him as your phone wallpaper.
It’s OBSESSION if: You have him as your room wallpaper.

It’s LOVE if: You text him out of the blue just to see how he is doing.
It’s OBSESSION if: You text him out of the blue to ask what he’s doing, who he’s with, where he’s going next, what time he will be home, and again, who he’s with, every ten minutes.

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  1. Hahahaahh I know the difference now:) thanks for sharing!
    I think, this is gonna be an obsession to follow your blog. Wanna follow each other? Let me know

  2. Hmm… this made me think ah… hahaha!! I'm "probably" in love with the hubby! hahaha!! I mean I'm sure I'm really in love with the guy pala. haha! Great post!

  3. nice one! hihi! obsession is parang infatuation din. natawa din ako dun sa room wallpaper! i can just imagine the room full of pictures of that person! hahaha!

  4. Hay naku, I can totally relate to all these saying. Gone crazy reading it, but deep inside – it's all true 🙂

  5. Oooohh.. Obsession is scary! hahaha! But when we were younger noh, it's so fun to look back and how stupid or petty we got when we first fell in love (in obsession, back then didn't know the difference) hahaha!

  6. @ Louise, sooo true ano!when we were kids I stalk my crushes haha. I even write my name Marie Bautista (my maiden name) then the family name of the one I am currently "insaning" on hehe

  7. I'm glad im in love and not obsess, haha! My boyfie actually wants me to put photos on my wall – I mean, can u believe that.. LOL. I only photos photos on my wall paper or a photo frame of us together and he wants me to put his photos on my room wall – he probably wants me to get obsess over him haha!

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